52 Lives

#187 Ben

Request: Donations / Messages

This week, we want to do something to help a 9 year old boy called Ben, who has been severely bullied at school. He has extreme anxiety and is now under child mental health services.

Ben is cross-eyed and also has autism, and some of the other children at school decided to target him. He kept it to himself for a long time, but one day when he came home with a handprint on his face, he finally opened up about what had been happening.

Some older boys had been hitting him, taunting him, and filming him while they did it. Ben’s anxiety is so extreme now that he is being home schooled and is scared of other children.

He has absolutely no friends – his siblings and his mum and dad are his whole world.

Ben’s aunty got in touch with us to see if we could send a few Christmas cards to him, to let him know that not everybody out there is mean. But the more I learnt about Ben, the more I realised that I wanted to do so much more to help.

Ben sleeps in a single bed with two of his siblings – one of them is a teenager. His mum has been wanting to buy bunks (their bunk bed broke) or new single beds, but they live on an incredibly low income. The carpet in Ben’s room also needs replacing – because of his anxiety, he wets himself a lot and the carpet has become very stained.

With your help, we want to give Ben all the love and kindness we can possibly manage.

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What We Need

1. Donations: We need donations to buy Ben and his siblings new beds, mattresses and bedding. We would also like to buy new carpet for the bedroom, and some Christmas gifts. Any funds we raise above what is needed for these things will be used to help Ben and his family in other ways. 100% of what you give will go towards helping this family. To make a donation, please click the button below.

2. Messages for Ben: To send a kind message to Ben, please either write your message in the form below (your contact details will not be passed on) or you can post a message to: 52 Lives (Life # 187), PO Box 3154, Reading, RG1 9AT. All messages will be passed along to Ben's mum to share with him. 



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