52 Lives

#183 Thomas and Ben

Request: Donations and messages

This week, we would like to help two brothers from Surrey, age 6 and 3.

6 year old Thomas has had multiple diagnosis during the past year and is still under investigation by various consultants to try to get to the bottom of his issues. He has learning difficulties, a sleep disorder, faecal incontinence, dyspraxia and a sensory processing disorder. They also believe his blood may not be clotting properly. His little brother Ben has autism and Fragile X syndrome, which is a genetic condition that causes a range of developmental problems including learning disabilities.

Both boys wake up many times during the night – Ben in particular has a tendency to open stair gates and wander around the house. Their mum, Fiona, said her and her husband are unable to sleep as they worry so much about keeping the boys safe.

Fiona has a huge amount on her plate and caring for her sons has become her entire life and the boys health - and their safety - is a constant worry. She said they are feeling more and more isolated as people struggle to understand the various issues that the boys have.

They are stressed, overwhelmed and exhausted. With your help, we would love to do some kind things to make their life a little bit easier. 

What We Need

1. Donations for beds and a buggy: They need a specialist bunk bed that will help to keep the boys safe at night and enable Fiona and her husband to get some sleep. They also need a specialist buggy for the boys, to help get them out and about more. Both come with a huge price tag - we need to raise £1300. To make a donation - no matter how big or small - please click the link below. 100% of what you donate will go towards helping this family. 

2. Cards / Messages: This week, we’d like to send cards and message for the boys' parents -  Fiona and David. They are dealing with a lot at the moment and feeling very alone, so some words of support will help them so much. To send a message, please either write it in the form below and we will pass it along to them (your email address will not be shared) or you can post one to: 52 Lives (Life # 183) PO Box, 3154, Reading, RG1 9AT. 


(We used a stock image with this story to respect the boys' privacy)

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